Wedding dances for queer and trans people

If you are queer or trans, age-old wedding traditions can feel out of place. We help you choreograph and practice dance routines that fit your identity and style. From first dances to parent-child dance routines, we have done it all. Many of our clients have turned outdated traditions into treasured moments that made their wedding feel extra special.

A couple dancing at their queer wedding.

First Dance for Queer Weddings

First dances should be uniquely you. We help choreograph a dance routine that fits your skill level, mood, style, and love story. Together, we’ll practice the steps so you feel confident and excited for this moment on your big day.

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A couple embracing at their queer wedding.
A father and child dance together at a wedding.

Parent-Child Dance for Queer Weddings

You won’t believe the number of people who have found the process of creating a parent-child dance routine a healing moment, leading up to and during their wedding. We meet you where you all are at in terms of skill-level and relationship, and turn what can be anxiety-inducing, into a special moment for you and your parent.

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Group Dance Routines for Queer Weddings

Need a fun group moment at your wedding? Whether you’re making it a surprise flashmob or a planned group routine, we help you all practice the choreography so you look your best on the wedding day.

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Signing up for a Queerchata class is probably one of the best things I've ever done for myself! Really appreciate all the thought & effort the QC team puts into creating safe & fun spaces for us. It's so true, healing happens in community :]

Aucoeur

Queerchata is such a fun experience! If you’re queer and looking for a safe fun place to dance and mingle, I highly recommend going to a Queerchata social. ✨ Best of all, Queerchata makes their events super beginner friendly so that everyone can be a part.

Ángel

Queerchata has been life-changing for me. The feeling of camaraderie, safety, and joy I feel when I participate in a class is unparalleled.

Mel

Queerchata is incredible. It's been so healing to dance in an inclusive environment free of gendered expectations and full of acceptance.

Nicole

This place is always a joy to dance in. I’ve met so many beautiful people here and the classes are just as amazing! Definitely recommend trying it out.

Sharon

I love Queerchata, learning to dance in such a inclusive, fun, and supportive space has been amazing! I have always loved dancing but disliked how heteronormative and patriarchal it can feel. I immediately signed up for the next class when I finished the first one.

Lindsey

The Queerchata team is building a fun, safe space and a welcoming community for queer people in the salsa/bachata dance scene. Everytime they're involved, I know it's going to be great time.

Arturo

Adrian's intentionality in creating uniquely inclusive spaces is remarkable. Whenever I attend a QC event I know I'm going to feel like I'm part of something special and I know I'm going to have an awesome time to go with it!

Chris

We loved seeing our guests participating in the dance lesson. A true celebration of community and movement that brought a lot of joy to participants and observers. It was a perfect way to end our NHM Commons Opening Celebration! Can't wait to think of other opportunities to bring Queerchata back to NHM!

Joel Quizon
Manager, Public Programs
Natural History Museum

I've had a wonderful time at every queerchata event I've attended and there's been many. Lots of dancing and a beautiful affirming space to exist in!

Thali

To elevate your dance in a safe queer space, what more can someone ask for. I love it here ❤️.

Michael

Thank you for all the work you’re doing to create such a joyful space for me and my friends! It’s something I really look forward to on my tougher days.

Julia

As leaders of the Pride Employee Resource Group at our office, we’re always looking for ways to expand the horizons of our members and allies. The folks at Queerchata led a fun and engaging dance workshop that was work appropriate but also pushed on the idea of traditional gender roles within dancing. They were very considerate of people's comfort level, adjusted the pace when people fell behind, and reviewed steps as much as we needed. They really met everyone where they were at!

Rachael Datello
Manager, Production Management
Netflix Animation Studios
A group of Queerchat dancers.
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